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Taking
care of a loved one who has Alzheimer’s is a huge responsibility and
very time consuming. It can bring a lot of stress, frustration and more.
You devote all your time to your loved one and not have time for
yourself anymore. You always wonder: when can I take a break from her?
It is not an easy decision, but sometimes it has to be made for your own
well being.
There are
different options to consider. If your loved one is in early/mid stages
of Alzheimer’s you can consider private duty home care. Many agencies
throughout the nation and in your community provide this service. A list
of providers can be obtained in the phone book, from the local
Alzheimer’s Association, Area Agency on Aging, or any case management
and referral source. The private duty home care can include services
like bathing, sitting, taking to appointments, shopping, meal
preparation and other day-to-day essentials. This assistance will
definitely help you in getting more free time.
You
might also try adult day care. The centers usually operate from 8.00
am to FREE.00 pm. It is a good environment for socialization. Your loved
one will be able to interact with others, but she knows she will be back
home for the night. If you decide to look for an adult day care, you
will want to make sure the staff is experienced in caring for
Alzheimer’s patients.
Another
solution is hiring an independent in-home care giver yourself. This
person will take care of your loved one while you are away. You may be
able to obtain names and information about experienced caregivers from
places such as your church, Alzheimer’s Association, Area Agency on
Aging.
Make sure you check
the references. Meet and talk with the prospective caregiver and see how
the person interacts with your loved one. Touching is very important.
It could be a pat on the back or gently rubbing the hand. You can even
ask your loved one for input about the person. People with dementia are
often perceptive and intuitive.
And
don’t forget! You have family members as well that can help you. A
loved one who has Alzheimer’s affects all family members. So if family
members offer to help, take advantage of it.
Remember, help is available. Do not feel guilty because you want to take a break. You deserve it.
William G. Hammond, JD is a nationally
known elder law attorney and founder of The Alzheimer’s Resource
Center. He is a frequent guest on radio and television and has developed
innovative solutions to guide families who have a loved one suffering
from Alzheimer’s. For more information you can visit his website at www.BeatAlzheimers.com.
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